Friday, December 14, 2007'♥
this was meant to be a random post. u dislike it im sorry , i just feel like sharing .[ swear to god i dint fight with my bf ]well, sometimes i just dont understand what one wants in a relationship .i cant deny the fact every single human beings have ego , but what matter most are how big the egos are .well, people cant totally blame the girl for evrything that happen .girls react such way because they have reasons behind it .maybe they want you to understand how they feel and they want you to change .but guys things the other way , and that girls are filled with ego .please , dont get it all wrong .girls will constantly remind you to stop hurting her because once it hurt, the world starts to change . or worst , the love may just fade away .when girls start to give up , then guys start pleading . oh come on , wheres the love , initiative , give and take and all ?the promises you have made on the first day of the relationship ?cant you think about the sacrifices the girl has made ?when shes there all beside you ?when she is even willing to spend a minute or two just for you when she has other things to do ?guys are just guys . thats right .sori to a certain extent , im just sharin my point of view .sometimes , i couldnt get the definite answer to myself .to my dearest besfren .i noe how you feel right now .i noe the past is haunting you down but dont give up ok ?you guys have made this far . dont throw the rship away .think about the best moments in life , the anniversary , time spent together .if things doesnt go your way , change it . maybe a new strategy is needed .i still remember those time when i was down .you gave mi a sound advice .its hard to stand up after a hard fall , but no matter what you have to face it .to stand on ur two feet is never easy .work things out , im sure it will work .maybe another heart to heart talk ? remember ?thats what you told mi .if there is a need to cry in front of him , cry then .maybe that is the onli thing you can afford to do and prove to you how much he means to you .i m not trying to say that my relationship is perfect but im here to help you .if you want me to be there to help you and cheer u up , i will .thats wad frens are for right ?so wadeva decision that you have made , ill owaes support you .we should help each other .and i love the way you guys are .you guys are simply sweet .stay strong ok ?ok im bleaarggghin .im dozing off now .nite people (:
